It has been a while since I last posted or even visited this
space. I landed here while I was looking for something . As I was reading my
earlier posts, it made me feel happy, sad and nostalgic and I was very glad that I had
all this, written up somewhere. All of a
sudden, I was asking myself why my last post was in 2016. It has been a good
two years and I haven’t really recorded anything that happened in the interim.
I had promised myself that I would chronicle as much of my journey with Pickles
and life in general but I let myself down. It’ll suffice to say, life got in
the way. That said, when the time is right, motivation comes calling and I
think it’s about time I made a comeback to storing memories here.
A lot has happened in the last two years:
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Pickles started school. Although he started
school much earlier at a small establishment near home where he would spend 2
hours every day confined to a tiny room with 5 other children and 2 teachers,
did he like it there? I’ll just say he would be the first one out, every.single.day!
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We have now found a school we both love, it has
almost been 2 years now. A home outside home (a part of my village), which is
grooming him with just the things I would have. We love the teachers and the
fact that the school is just right on the other side of the street is an added
bonus. We love the uninhibited play, outdoors and the music.
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We also introduced screen-time for Pickles. It
is worthy of a post in itself. For now it’ll suffice to say he really looks
forward to Friday evenings.
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As for me, I accepted more responsibilites at
work. Of course it came with perks. I have my own office which is such a nice
thing (it has its good and bad) and I also do realise that you lose friends
along the way. And now your colleagues are just that.
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Thanks to the new position, I’ve had
opportunities to travel solo. I’ve been to Germany, Sweden, London and the USA,
in a span of 2 years. I have given talks and generally tried to make my mark in
the field. In the process, I am beginning to understand myself more and I am
trying to forge a better relationship with myself.
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I have been reading, a lot, when compared to the
little 5-10 minutes of reading before I passed out at bed time. I have finished
17 books out of my goal of 25 for this year.
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R and I celebrated 10 years of marriage. We
finally took a much needed vacation, just the three of us. It was one of the
best trips we have made in a long time.
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R and I are growing up, differently but also
similar in many ways. We are making consious choices about what we want in life
and thinking about it more than we ever have, hitherto.
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We have
been more concerned about our health. It doesn’t help that parents have had
illnesses and made us more painfully aware of mortality, both their’s and our
own.
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And best of all, I’m in a good place right now.
I love my life and I wouldn’t have it any other way.
So, there. I’m back in this space. Hopefully, I will stay
for a while.